Monday, July 22, 2013

One is Silver and the Other's Gold

Remember that line from Girl Scouts? Part of the song about friendship...

Make new friends
But keep the old
One is Silver
and the Other's Gold

That song is frequently in my head as we travel around in our RV.  Through the internet and social media sites, we've been able to stay in almost immediate contact with our former neighbors, schoolmates, coworkers and other folks we've met along our journey.

Then when we arrive at a campground, the opportunity to make new friends / acquaintances is opened up again.  Some of the places we visit, because we're only there for a night do not afford the same opportunity to meet other RVers as easily as a multi-night stop does.

Earlier this month we met a couple in a Cabela store parking lot.  From small talk with them we discovered we stay at the same campground in Florida and were just a handful of sites from each other back in March - we were in "Little C" and they were in "Big C", one row and 5 sites apart. Although we were both at the FL campground at the same time, we didn't meet there.  It took us until South Dakota to meet.  We both plan to return to that park this winter and will look each other up when they arrive (we get in first for several months, they arrive for our final month).

At our next campground, the couple in the site next to ours were putting up their "states visited map" on their unit. Once again small talk ensued about places we each had been and this or that.  Found out that this couple were heading to the same campground as us to enjoy the Custer State Park area.  Although we didn't get abutting sites at the next park, we were able to spend time getting to know each other and I believe a good friendship has developed and can see us visiting with these folks from time to time along the road.

In our latest campground we've become acquaintances with two couples, both of whom use South Dakota for their residency.  One couple is like us, fulltimers using the state for it's friendly fulltime RVer lifestyle.  Come to find out they use to live outside of Worcester in the same area my grandmother was raised as a child (we haven't discovered any mutual acquaintances, yet).

The other couple are not fulltimers but are actual residents of SD and we've shared suggestions of places to see and go (they want to see the Northeast and Canada and gave some of the maps and brochures we acquired to help them plan next year's vacations).  Chuck came back from walking Rugby and said he and the man had spoken about getting together for a cookout and that their people and our people were to get together to plan it, which we girls did.  It was a really nice time.

An odd experience happened though while we ladies were working out details of the meal and sharing stories of family, another woman, who had just pulled in to the campground for the night, came walking right up in to our campsite and showed us the T-shirt she had just bought that morning.  She then turned around and left, leaving us a bit confused about what was going on.  Awhile later she reappeared, tried to make a few moments of small talk and once again left.  As I said earlier in this post, it is much easier to make acquaintances when you're parked for several days and see each other come and go than it is on a one night stay.

This morning, both South Dakota couples pulled out, but we've got email and other contact information to stay in touch while we travel about.

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